i'm back!

2311o9,

i was on time for econs tutorial!
almost fell aslp though, cos i slept at 3 last night.
damn tired. :/

eh btw, i painted my nails HOT PINK.
yay. :D

had a 3 hour-long break after econs tutorial.
went to the benches outside waffle shop and slacked.
pacc @ 1, did tutorial and lab work.

after pacc, went off to do IDEAS proj!
with my team mates: wenchuan, imran, derek and hong yi.
tgt with liwen's group; eric, choyling and shirong.
trained down to vivo and crapped alot on the way.
imran still owe me a few punches!
cos of what he did to my arm during pacc,
almost sprained it la! :x

liwen's team is doing on sports wear while our group's doing on italian food.
reached vivo at around 3+.
liwen's group went off to do their IDEAS at adidas, nike, puma shops.
the guys in our group went along with them,
while wenchuan and i went shopping at forever 21!
LOL.
we were like trying on the accessories and such.
wenchuan's considering about getting necklaces,
meanwhile i was trying on their shades. :D
so fun la. :)
then the guys were like waiting for us! HAHA.
and they got really impatient!
esp imran!

after that, we went off for our pastamania at habourfront centre!
my turkey bacon aglio! <3
wenchuan had her carbonara pasta, imran's was mussels and clams,
hongyi had turkey bacon aglio too and derek's was creamy chicken.
took pictures of our pasta, several group pictures and a few individual shots.
HAHA. :D

eric, liwen, choyling and shirong came to join us at around 6,
when we had already finished eating. -.-
talked/ crapped for a while before leaving at around 63o.

headed back to vivo and went to take a look at fox's hoodies.
i want that white one! omg!
so gonna get it man.
real soon. :)

liwen, choyling and shirong left not long after that.
so, only left the 3 of us again.
derek, eric and i.
went window shopping in zara, armani exchange etc,
before going down to giant to buy the 1.5L pokka green tea,
and eric's dinner to bring up to the sky garden.

found a spot at the pavillion at the sky garden and we sat down there,
crapped and talked from 7 plus to 10 plus again.
LOL.
and that idiot was acting pro,
tried to converse in french, jap, korean and cantonese.
pronounciation all wrong.
damn funneh!
we ended up laughing like crazy.

trained back to hougang after that.
what a long, but fun-filled day. :)

i'm so packed with activities this wk and next wk!
later gonna watch 2o12 with vonne dear and feli,
most probably at cineleisure.
gotta check the show timing first.

and mad called me just now to jio me out for gym later!
but i had to reject her offer cos i'm already booked for the day. :(
sigh. i need to work out, badly. :/

then wednesday, probably gonna stay back with them for proj or to study?
if not, either going out with eliz or studying with yaozhong daddy! ><

thurs, meeting suven!
i've been waiting for so long to meet up with her. :(
like, finally finally finally.
i've so many things to tell her and so many things to catch up on.

friday, wanna go home straight after sch to study.
omgggggg.

sat, sun working.
no choice, kena called back to work. :/

and then next week,
gonna meet up with jason for lunch/ dinner!
bday present exchange!
LOL.
need to catch up on things with him too. :)

meeting john next wednesday!
havent seen him for 3 years odd.
the last time was in sec 2,
and that felt like eons ago.
missed him so much, and there are so many many things to catch up on.
i really cant wait.
gonna go shopping for clothes with him at cotton on,
zara, fox and topshop/ topman.
most probably going down to plaza sing and vivo,
and it's gonna take up the entire day.
shopping + catching up on each other's life.
can't wait can't wait.

gotta start studying for MST alr.
havent even touched on anything yet,
and there are so much to study according to imran.
2 weeks aren't enough.
omfgah.
why. why time flies so quickily when you're having fun and all.

i'm back. :)

work had been really tedious for the past 2 days.
and i almost fell alsp while working ytd, even though i was very busy.
LOL.
gotta know another new colleague in my department, leon.
nice guy. :)

2311o9.
kept making fun of ivan and yvonne!
and ivan kept blushing whenever i mentioned yvonne's name!
so funneh.
today's yvonne's last day at work,
so gonna miss my darling vonne.
:'(
oh wells, looking forward to seeing her again on tues!
will be watching 2o12 with her and felicia. :D
like, finally. :D

gonna bunk in soon, will update again later!

i love the super duper cold weather these days man.
so conducive for sleeping and lazing around. :D
and the best thing is,
i'm not perspiring.
:DDDDDDDD

LOL.

ok, i'm done with ITAB.
like finally.
stayed up the whole night to complete it.
from 10+pm - 11+am.
more than 12 hours.
in between, i took about 4 hours of power nap.
felt so super exhausted.
thus, missed econs lect.

reached gems class at 1.20pm.
liwen didnt go for gems today, so i was alone and kinda bored.
had to form groups for some games and discussion.
was in this group with 2 girls, ryan and another guy from ryan's class.
watched some vids again the games.
overall, today's gems was fun. :)

headed back to business block to meet up with the rest after gems.
wc, peng, derek, eric they all.
ate and went for pacc lect.

slept almost throughout pacc lect.
too exhausted.
i tried my best to stay awake,
but i was really really uber fatigued.

went home aft sch, and i overslept on the train! :x

ok, i'm gonna side-track a lil.

i'm seriously in need of some perks in my life,
cos i really missed the feeling of being in love.
but i'm just so-not-in-the-mood for another r/s right now.
probably wanna enjoy being single for the time being.
but being single can be really boring sometimes.
i just need that someone, that particular someone, to spend time with.
to go crazy with, to laugh with, to crap with, to talk to.
cos i feel really happy when i'm with you and the others.
how i wish we can remain like this for long.
(:

off to bed now.
i can't take it anymore; my eyes are forcing itself to close alr.

i'm back home! :)

gosh. just realised that MST's 2 weeks away from now.
time flies la, so friggin fast.
it's like i've yet to settle down for sem 2 and MST's alr round the corner.
wtf.

not much time left for revision.
i'm so so so behind for econs, stats, pacc and itab.
well, it's like basically everything.
havent started revising.

got back SPSS results today and it was like shit.
ok, blames myself for not paying attention in class.
i'm so dead.
really gotta buck up.

today:

MOB presentation was a breeze. :D
but i guess juliana ong's quite strict?
so i won't be expecting very high marks.
we were the first group to present, and for subsequent presentations,
i slept throughout.
so friggin tired, had less than 4 hours of slp last night. :x
zomg i was told by liwen that i slept with my mouth wide open,
and stupid eric was laughing.
!!!

pacc lect, was a bore.
sat at the last row.
the guys were damn noisy, kept laughing.
peng and eric especially.
their laughter super contagious. LOL.
cos eric was crapping abt the cherry splitting thing again,
and hong yi was in front of him.
-.-

stats, got back SPSS results la, didnt do well.
expected.

aft lessons, trained down to plaza sing to meet eliz dearie!
havent seen her for like ages and i missed her so much!
we camped at mac for 3 hour plus, catching up and talking. :)
i wished we could stay longer! :)

gotta finish itab by tonight! :x
have a feeling that i'll burn my night away tonight, again.
gonna shower first.
:/

damn hectic!

18/11!

reached sch at around 8.05am, finally early for once! :D
took the ITAB quiz and i got 8/1o.
pure tyco-ness!
cos got like 5 qns i anyhow tik kam one. LOL.

anyway, ITAB ended early.
so went down to fc 6 with the usual.
ate, drank and chionged abit of MOB proj.
MOB proj's so rush la!
we were only given 2 days to complete it,
when other classes were given a week to finish it.
and the worst thing is, have to wear formal attire.
totally wts.

stats lect.
almost slept throughout. :x

after stats lect, went off to the benches outside waffle shop.
slacked, talked, crapped, project-ed w liwen, wc, eric, choyling & shirong.
wc went off at 3 for her gems, choyling & shirong left not long after that.
so only left the me, eric and liwen.
the 3 of us again. LOL.
were crapping mostly throughout.
and i was trying hard to concentrate on my MOB proj!
but kept getting distracted by eric's crap. .__.

then we played a prank on hong yi, on msn. LOLLOL.
cherry split, think bubbles, dice and slice, false faces! HAHA.
damn hilarious!
so this was how the conversation went:

(4:12 PM) uniqueeeee:	what is core of our challenge?
(4:12 PM) Tanhy:	using these small points to add to ur creativity
(4:13 PM) uniqueeeee:	and why is there cherry? you feeling hungry?
(4:13 PM) Tanhy:	example only its not i write wan
(4:13 PM) Tanhy:	must link to pbl
(4:13 PM) uniqueeeee:	then you copy everything on the net?
(4:13 PM) Tanhy:	ur sides slides
(4:13 PM) uniqueeeee:	why not put egg split
(4:13 PM) Tanhy:	not all qns
(4:13 PM) uniqueeeee:	since it's egg project
(4:14 PM) Tanhy:	either way you name it also can the techniques remain
(4:14 PM) uniqueeeee:	what technique?
(4:15 PM) Tanhy:	it actually is kinda a brain storming thingy
(4:15 PM) uniqueeeee:	why cherry?
(4:15 PM) uniqueeeee:	you name it yourself or u copy from the net?
(4:15 PM) Tanhy:	copy from net the guy name it cheery picking
(4:16 PM) Tanhy:	i think this is a real technique its from a book wan
(4:16 PM) uniqueeeee:	to pick? how's the cherry? sweet?
(4:16 PM) Tanhy:	lol
(4:16 PM) uniqueeeee:	what about slice the dice?
(4:17 PM) Tanhy:	list down all ur problems
(4:17 PM) uniqueeeee:	what has it got to do with slicing?
(4:18 PM) Tanhy:	list down all the other small problems in the main big problem itself tackle these small problems 1 at a time instead a rushing in the big wan
(4:19 PM) uniqueeeee:	which website u got in from? can link me? i feel hungry
(4:19 PM) Tanhy:	ok lol
(4:22 PM) uniqueeeee:	website leh? i hungrry la
(4:23 PM) Tanhy:	at the bottom of the word doc the second one got link all the way last page
(4:23 PM) uniqueeeee:	ok. what is think bubbles ah?
(4:23 PM) uniqueeeee:	i dont understand why cant it be think buttercup or think blossom?
(4:24 PM) Tanhy:	its not i name wan
(4:24 PM) uniqueeeee:	then u copy everything? mob tutor say cant leh need rephrase
(4:24 PM) Tanhy:	you finisg ur part le mah?
(4:24 PM) uniqueeeee:	ya.
(4:24 PM) Tanhy:	zzzz
(4:24 PM) uniqueeeee:	i done my slides le 18 slides
(4:24 PM) Tanhy:	abit too much
(4:24 PM) uniqueeeee:	derek say must send him before 6 imran say need at least 12 slides*
(4:25 PM) Tanhy:	4 mins sia very fast wan
(4:25 PM) uniqueeeee:	what is 4mins sia?
(4:25 PM) uniqueeeee:	we only got 4mins to save the world
(4:25 PM) Tanhy:	rmb that time fom
(4:26 PM) Tanhy:	over the time limit unless the slides got very little points
(4:26 PM) uniqueeeee:	that is cynthia what.
(4:26 PM) uniqueeeee:	now is juliana cynthia alr saved the world
(4:26 PM) Tanhy:	still its 4mins
(4:26 PM) uniqueeeee:	juliana havent
(4:27 PM) uniqueeeee:	you doing qn 4?
(4:27 PM) Tanhy:	yes very hard to do
(4:28 PM) uniqueeeee:	on what problems may occur and how to solve?
(4:28 PM) Tanhy:	yeah
(4:28 PM) uniqueeeee:	put your cherry split and slice the dice inside?
(4:28 PM) Tanhy:	not alot of info
(4:28 PM) uniqueeeee:	i think quite relevant i asked imran he say ok u can add
(4:28 PM) Tanhy:	hes part is ok
(4:28 PM) uniqueeeee:	cos lasse not using it for qn 2
(4:29 PM) uniqueeeee:	u can add your cherry split and think bubbles for your slides so u can have at least 12 slides
(4:29 PM) Tanhy:	but its problems in a team
(4:29 PM) uniqueeeee:	How to solve questions? use cherry split. tackle the small prob 1st
(4:29 PM) Tanhy:	the cherry split and picking is not that related
(4:29 PM) uniqueeeee:	tackle the small cherry 1st then the bigger one later
(4:30 PM) Tanhy:	lol
(4:30 PM) uniqueeeee:	imran says it is
(4:30 PM) Tanhy:	that may work
(4:30 PM) uniqueeeee:	he asked u to add
(4:30 PM) Tanhy:	ok
(4:30 PM) uniqueeeee:	just remember not to eat all the cherries leave some for us
(4:30 PM) Tanhy:
(4:31 PM) uniqueeeee:
(4:33 PM) uniqueeeee:	Keywords. Ignore all relevant words and phrases and concentrate only on expressing the essentials, and what associations these “essences” excite in your mind. what does it means?
(4:33 PM) Tanhy:	lol i have no idea you using this one?
(4:33 PM) uniqueeeee:	imran says this also quite good but i dont quite understand
(4:34 PM) uniqueeeee:	he urges you to put inside the slides
(4:34 PM) Tanhy:	.... is he online
(4:34 PM) uniqueeeee:	he called me
(4:36 PM) uniqueeeee:	what is scamper?
(4:36 PM) uniqueeeee:	scam ar?
(4:37 PM) Tanhy:	eh i didnt write include that in
(4:37 PM) uniqueeeee:	? Sent a sound: meow xD
(4:38 PM) uniqueeeee:	which slide u doing now? whats the point?
(4:39 PM) Tanhy:	7
(4:39 PM) uniqueeeee:	whats the point on the slide banana split
(4:41 PM) Tanhy:	im doing methods to solve problems Compromisation
(4:41 PM) uniqueeeee:	so what methods u suggesting? is cherry split included?
(4:42 PM) Tanhy:	compromisation is a method
(4:42 PM) uniqueeeee:	what about cherry split? where you adding it?
(4:42 PM) Tanhy:	haven add yet im only at slide 7
(4:42 PM) uniqueeeee:	when u adding? which slide is the cherry at?
(4:42 PM) Tanhy:	after this one 8 or 9
(4:43 PM) uniqueeeee:	so what is the point for it?
(4:43 PM) Tanhy:	wait wait wait let me do my work
(4:43 PM) uniqueeeee:	im asking only what..
(4:43 PM) Tanhy:	i know
(4:44 PM) uniqueeeee:	like the compromising is for the point: what methods to suggest then the cherry belong to where?
(4:45 PM) uniqueeeee:	hello? i need to report to derek
(4:46 PM) Tanhy:	the cherry? belong to where?
(4:46 PM) uniqueeeee:	ya ya
(4:46 PM) Tanhy:	i dont get you?
(4:46 PM) Tanhy:	you mean am i adding it in?
(4:46 PM) uniqueeeee:	cherry split is a method right?
(4:46 PM) Tanhy:	yes
(4:46 PM) uniqueeeee:	where are you going to add it in? like whats the question
(4:47 PM) Tanhy:	just add it in as a method alternative method
(4:47 PM) uniqueeeee:	which method?
(4:47 PM) Tanhy:	of solving problems team problems
(4:47 PM) uniqueeeee:	remember to add cherry split, slice the dice and think bubbles in they are important and relevant
(4:47 PM) Tanhy:	ok
(4:47 PM) uniqueeeee:	dont miss them out anyway derek says he's rushing like mad
(4:48 PM) uniqueeeee:	so he wants all our slides by 530 im going to finish alr you?
(4:48 PM) Tanhy:	wah
(4:48 PM) Tanhy:	ok ok i rush now
(4:49 PM) uniqueeeee:	sia la
(4:49 PM) uniqueeeee:	derek says he wants by 500 just now typo
(4:50 PM) Tanhy:	wad are the benefits of an in direct approach to solving team problems
(4:51 PM) uniqueeeee:	the benefits?
(4:51 PM) Tanhy:	yeah
(4:51 PM) uniqueeeee:	the benefit is. because it is not direct
(4:51 PM) uniqueeeee:	direct will hurt ppl feelings not direct wont
(4:51 PM) Tanhy:	yeah
(4:52 PM) uniqueeeee:	being direct in the team can help the team solves it's problem directly. the benefits of being indirect will help solve the team's prob indirectly so its good
(4:52 PM) uniqueeeee:	cos we are using a different approach. we are being creative
(4:52 PM) Tanhy:	!
(4:53 PM) uniqueeeee:	its like scamper How to manipulate what exists into something different. so we can have different outcome which will help our team alot
(4:55 PM) uniqueeeee:	u understand what i saying?
(4:55 PM)	You have just sent a nudge.
(4:55 PM) Tanhy:	yes
(4:55 PM) uniqueeeee:
(4:55 PM) uniqueeeee:	left 4mins alr derek is waiting.. time is ticking.. tick tick tick.
(4:56 PM) uniqueeeee:	can u send me on what you are doing right now save it now send me i help u check whether you are on the right tracj track*
(4:56 PM) Tanhy:	ok
(4:57 PM) Tanhy:	Initiated a file transfer
(4:57 PM) Tanhy:	here
(4:57 PM)	You have successfully received C:\Users\user\Documents\My Received Files\Problems in a team.pptx from Tanhy.
(4:57 PM) uniqueeeee:	thanks brbr
(4:59 PM) uniqueeeee:	your slides the point quuite short how u going to elaborate tmr? u prepared your script?
(4:59 PM) Tanhy:	yeah its in the head
(4:59 PM) Tanhy:	every point is going to be elaborated
(5:00 PM) uniqueeeee:	you can remember all?
(5:00 PM) Tanhy:	the slice and dice cherry plit ones are going to be in the slide the ones you seeing now not very difficult to elborate
(5:01 PM) uniqueeeee:	you can remember what to say for all the points like ego, etc.
(5:01 PM) Tanhy:	yeah ego
(5:01 PM) Tanhy:	ego basically is the sense of self worth of the person it is tied quite closelly to goals
(5:02 PM) uniqueeeee:	u really dont need script?
(5:02 PM) Tanhy:	if the person is unable to accomplish his goals his ego may be injured if he is of high expectations
(5:03 PM) Tanhy:	the one i just type out is i think on the spot wan
(5:03 PM) uniqueeeee:	u need hand in derek your ppt asap
(5:03 PM) Tanhy:	But anyway i will still prepare a scipt its better rite?
(5:03 PM) uniqueeeee:	then still need submit your script to derek to let him see by 6
(5:03 PM) Tanhy:	yeah
(5:03 PM) uniqueeeee:	formal script with standard english. what u are saying tmr must be totally the same
(5:04 PM) Tanhy:	teacher want s the script?
(5:04 PM) uniqueeeee:	i think no need just for your own ref try to complete your ppt asap script later do
(5:04 PM) Tanhy:	ok bb
(5:07 PM) uniqueeeee:	derek says he will give u some more time to do he seen your slides alr he can tell that you are working very hard and trying your best he say he will give u more time
(5:07 PM) uniqueeeee:	so dont so rush
(5:07 PM) Tanhy:	that sounds very odd
(5:07 PM) uniqueeeee:	add more elaborate why? why odd?
(5:08 PM) Tanhy:	nth lol
(5:08 PM) uniqueeeee:	ya so just continue your work. we all know you are trying very hard for the team
(5:08 PM) uniqueeeee:	keep the spirit going on
(5:12 PM) Tanhy:	done slie and dice
(5:12 PM) uniqueeeee:	send ? thanks
(5:13 PM) Tanhy:	cherry split is not relavent to this team problems thing
(5:13 PM) Tanhy:	so im leaving it out
(5:13 PM) uniqueeeee:	okok eh is relevant
(5:14 PM) uniqueeeee:	how to solve problems small problems then bigger problems
(5:14 PM) Tanhy:	but tis is more on bian storming for ideas
(5:14 PM) Tanhy:	slice and dice is solving from the bottom the smallest
(5:15 PM) uniqueeeee:	cherry also can solve the small prob then big one
(5:15 PM) Tanhy:	this one is creating ideas
(5:15 PM) Tanhy:	through words that have the around the same meaning
(5:16 PM) Tanhy:	hay false faces work
(5:16 PM) uniqueeeee:	ok then add then in
(5:17 PM) Tanhy:	think bubbles is not relevent
(5:17 PM) uniqueeeee:	still ok
(5:19 PM) uniqueeeee:	fin alr? send send i want to see the slides
(5:19 PM) Tanhy:	im at slide 10 wait i send first
(5:19 PM) Tanhy:	Initiated a file transfer
(5:20 PM)	You have successfully received C:\Users\user\Documents\My Received Files\Problems in a team(1).pptx from Tanhy.
(5:21 PM) uniqueeeee:	cherry split put leh cos the one quite relevant like slice and dice split the problems/ using cherry as example
(5:22 PM) Tanhy:	so its the same
(5:22 PM) uniqueeeee:	yup just put it in
(5:22 PM) Tanhy:	got no link its like
(5:22 PM) uniqueeeee:	have
(5:22 PM) Tanhy:	cherry split and link to fruits fruits split link to good for health
(5:23 PM) uniqueeeee:	ya i think can. you say group members can settle for fruit split when they encounter hard prob
(5:23 PM) Tanhy:	team problems?
(5:23 PM) uniqueeeee:	soo they can chill and have some fun before tacking the big "cherry"
(5:23 PM) Tanhy:	!
(5:24 PM) Tanhy:	no link leh
(5:24 PM) uniqueeeee:	good idea isnt it?
(5:24 PM) Tanhy:	nvm i finish the rest first
(5:24 PM) uniqueeeee:	sometimes they must relax. not always all work
(5:31 PM) Tanhy:	we need to link it to the problems we faced during our experiment
(5:39 PM) uniqueeeee:	ya the qn u doing now is on how to solve prob. we didnt have any prob what so we must imagine.
(5:39 PM) Tanhy:	i am
(5:39 PM) uniqueeeee:	so that example about the cherry is ok

btw, this was eric using my msn to disturb hong yi.
HAHA.
we kept laughing non-stop omg!
okok damn bad.
but friggin funny!
and the funniest part was hong yi didn't know that we were pranking him.
LMAO.

ok, back to MOB.
imran's like having a hard time editing hong yi's part now,
cos of what we had done.
ROFL.

later, later!
presentation's at 8am!
which means waking up at 6am. :O
first group, 3rd speaker!
suay la, how come always tio 1st group.

anw, MOB FTW. :D

okok, back to MOB proj now.
truckloads to edit.
OMFG.

life is never fair.

felt so screwed and fucked up at this moment of time.

1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you.
Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you.
He does not love you and does not value having you.
Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you.
There is another reason he is not willing to tell.

2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship.
There is only one reason why he ended your relationship.
He just does not love you.
Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done.
Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.

3. Do not get hang up on your past.
Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you.
Do not treat him or the relationship the same way.
Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex.
Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl.
What happened with your ex was not your fault.
It was not because you didn’t guard him enough,
or you didn’t make him happy enough.

4. Do not look into images.
How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have the best image,
in school or at the office,
but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice?
Do not rely on images.
Oftentimes, it is far from reality.
Do not fear men just because your “supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.

5. Always have your own set of rules.
Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy.
It’s perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as it’s worth it.
And it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.

6. Do not be scared to lose him.
Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you.
Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage.
Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.

7. Avoid calling your guy.
It’s a guy thing.
The relationship will definitely be better if it’s the guy who’s calling, not the girl.
He will get tired of you if you keep on calling.
He will lose interest and challenge.
More so, he will get annoyed.
But it’s a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number.
But avoid as much as possible.
Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable).

8. There is a guy who will value you.
There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved.
And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together.
So don’t lose hope.
Don’t settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women.
There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can.
Also, do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he really is.
He’s not the sweet or expressive-type.
Remember during your first few weeks together?
Where has that sweet guy gone?
He simply is not that into you anymore.

9. Always be the only one, no matter what.
Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife,
girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can’t get rid of for whatever reason.
If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason,
he can’t leave or let go of another girl,
then you are no different from any ordinary mistress.

10. He must respect you.
No matter how long the relationship has been,
he should always show respect towards you.

11. If he fooled you, end it.
Philandering once is enough.
You can never trust nor respect the person again.

12. Never start a relationship the wrong way.
Do not steal another girl’s man, for whatever reason.
Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons,
(loneliness, on the rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.)
it is bound not to last.
You will only end up wasting more years of your life.

13. Do not force yourself into a relationship.
Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting impatient
with your dating escapades and the one hasn’t come yet.
Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money,
looks, cars, etc..
If you are even thinking of these things,
you have not fallen in love yet.

14. Do not settle.
If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly.
He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be.
Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.

15. A relationship has to have love.
Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts
into making the relationship work.
And believe me, keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties.

16. Don’t be afraid to be single.
It’s fun to be single, try it.
You can go out whenever and wherever you want.
You are free.
You can date whomever you want and you get to go out for free!
Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one.
Do not settle.

17. Be a good girl.
Be a good girl to attract a good guy.
Enter the relationship with sincere intentions.
Take the guy and the relationship seriously,
with the plan of spending the rest of your life with that person,
(of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years).
If you compare your flings from your real relationships,
you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled.

18. Love without limits.
Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things,
if the relationship ends, you still get hurt.
But if you gave your everything,
you were happy and you could say that it was worth it.
If you didn’t give your all,
you get hurt for nothing.

19. You will get over him.
Love is over-stated.
Love eventually ends and you are free to love another.

20. Be the one.
Act like you are the one.
Don’t be a nagger.
Don’t hinder his gimmicks.
Don’t give in to him too easily.
Make him treat you as important.
Don’t be easy.
Don’t be like every other girl he had in his life.

13113oo9

woke up at around 1o3o.
daddy's msg @ 7 plus woke me up,
but i was lazy to reply and continued sleeping.
hees.

reached sch at 12 plus, was late again.
cos i was trying to do up my hair but it was a failed attempt. :x
went to settle my gems class transfer at T16,
but i was told to go to the CASS office at T19.
so i went there.
and i was told to go to SALC.
had no idea where it is.

went in for econs lect after that, by then it was alr 1214.
14 minutes late.

head straight for gems with liwen after lect.
it was at T1751.
the lecturer was damn humourous and friendly!
i liked her! LOL.
saw several familiar faces there, those guys from dbfo8 and yes, ryan too.

watched this video on scientific matchmaking,
which lasted almost throughout the entire lesson.

head back to business block aft gems.
met up with the guys, cos the girls were @ jurong point.

pacc lect was a bore.
fell alsp, yawned, msging and wasn't really listening.

went home aft sch, cos almost everyone pon-ed viola!
and didn't feel like going out either,
cos i still have alot of assignment to do.

i'm still stuck with itab.
like, omg stop procrastinating leh.

hais. whatever it is, just don't.
don't ever thought of returning.